Newsflash: If he’s playing with you, it’s because YOU let it happen.
Have you ever left a relationship feeling like a fool, wondering how you fell so far? You clearly missed a warning signal that it was all going to hell in a hand-basket, right?
As a dating coach, I’ve seen this happen so many times, and I want it to STOP.
I’m going to reveal the seven red flags that let you know a guy you’re dating is NOT serious about you. He’s not necessarily mean, but he just doesn’t want the same type of relationship that you do.
1. He outright says he doesn’t want a relationship.
You go on a first date and find out he has many of the qualities you like. But he tells you right away that he doesn’t want a relationship, but you proceed with the date and he seems really interesting. You like him and want to see where things go. If you’re looking for a serious relationship, this is a huge mistake.
When he says he doesn’t want a relationship, believe him and move on. You’re not going to change his mind if he’s not ready.
2. He’s a flirt, but doesn’t ask you out.
You know him from work, the gym, or church, and he’s a huge flirt. He goes out of his way to turn your head and impress you. But funny thing, he never asks you out. He seems happy to see you, but it doesn’t go further, and that’s going to be your clue that he’s not interested.
If a guy wants to date you, he’ll ask you out. Plain and simple.
3. He says he’s never fallen in love.